Mistress Strict Tells

2010-06-14T00:22:00.000-07:00

Here is another interesting letter. It again addresses a common issue. I hope it and my answer again provoke thought and conversation within my readers communities

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Mistress Strict,

I hope this email finds you in good health and in
life. I have recently discovered the BDSM community and find
myself in a position that I have no one to ask questions to and get real
answers. I hope you can help. I have a couple of slaves that have thrown
themselves at my feet and I am super excited about it except I don't know
what to do with them. They have offered up house work & yard work. Never
having had a male offer to do those things is strange to me ........but what do slaves generally expect in return? Or what do I give them in return.
I don't want to use and abuse my slave unless he
asks so a little guidance would be so nice!

Mistress (in-training)

My dear Trainee,
From the very outset I must stress that the things I am about to say are only one Mistress's opinion. Ask several different Dommes the same questions, and you WILL get several different answers. With that caveat clearly in place I will proceed.

My first comments have to be about safety. YOUR safety.

I have no idea where these 'slaves' who have 'thrown themselves at your feet' have come from, but my first question is, Do you know them well enough and trust them sufficiently to invite them into your home? For a moment remove the D's aspect from the situation. Are these men that you would normally want visiting you at home alone? If you are not 100% sure then don't!!! Meet them first in a public location. For a coffee perhaps. Find out what it is they want.

Some who call themselves 'slave' are sexually turned on by being ordered to do manual labor for a dominant women. Are you prepared for that? Some slaves desire only to do your house work in return for your punishing them physically for doing a 'poor job'. Are you prepared for that? Do you know how to punish someone without causing physical damage?

There are so many wonderful opportunities to explore within the world of Ds. It must be remembered that the 'community' is made up of so many different people, each with their own kink. Communication is the key to any relationship. A Ds relationship is no exception. Talk to these 'slaves' Discuss with them what it is they REALLY desire.

I hope that helps.

Mistress Strict

A question without an answer.

2010-06-08T01:44:00.000-07:00

Below is a very common type of letter I receive. I wonder how YOU would reply?

Good evening Mistress Strict. I have long had a fantasy of putting myself in the control of a dominant woman. I am married; my wife would never understand this. I don't really know what would be involved and what boundaries are set if any. I am really quite nervous but excited at the prospect. Sorry I'm not trying to waste your time, I would just like to know a little bit more about what is involved.

Hope you can help

A Letters reply

2010-06-01T02:37:00.000-07:00

Greetings,

The other day I received the letter below. It is not the first of this type of email I have received, nor to I suspect will it be the last. I have decided to post it here, with my reply attach. The reply is of course only THIS Mistress's opinion. I hope that it might provoke some discussion and thought.

Hello mistress, and thank you for making the opportunity
and privilege of sending you a message so easy. As I have become older (
now 37) the need to serve and be controlled by a dominant women is
overwhelming. I have had some relationships with some wonderful ladies,
but cannot connect or get turned on at all. .................................................................. ...................Have you had any slaves like me, and if so what is the future if
I do not find a dominant women like yourself?

MY REPLY

In answer to your question, "Have I had any slaves like me, and if so what is the future if I do not find a dominant women like yourself?" my answer is yes. I have had the pleasure of being served by ones like you, I in fact have the great privilege of having a boy whom I cherish and who serves me well. I feel sure that there were times in his life when he felt like you. The desire to serve being strong within him and yet having no one to serve. A sub without a Mistress is like a lost soul, but there is aways hope. Just as in the vanilla world, one must meet many people before one meets a like minded spirit.

I would suggest that at 37 your search for the right Mistress is just beginning. Enjoy that journey. While you search for the right one, make every moment count. Dedicate yourself to learning HOW to serve. Ensure that when you do find 'the one' that you have the skills and dedication necessary to be as valuable to her as my boy is to me.

This is just one Mistress's opinion, but I believe that the gift of submission is a precious one. Don't give it away lightly. A Mistress must be worthy of your gifts just as you must be worth of her attention. Many claim the title of Mistress, not all are worthy of it, to take on a submissive is a responsibility, and an honour. There is no rush. Talk, mix with like minded people. Learn what is it that you desire.

I hope my words are of help.

Mistress Strict

Know Thy Self

2009-10-03T19:36:00.000-07:00

A small piece of advice for those how seek to serve.

KNOW Thy Self.

Journeying through the world of Bdsm can be an exciting adventure, you will learn much about others, and about yourself, however, before embarking on that journey, take time to reflect on your starting point.

Know yourself.
Know what it is that you want.
Know what you DO NOT desire.

All these things change as we grow and learn, but knowing yourself, knowing your limits knowing your value is hugely important.

How can you offer yourself to someone to serve them, if you don't know what you are good at. How can you assist your Mistress if you have no skills to offer her.

Think about that BEFORE you offer yourself into service.

Strange But True

2009-09-18T19:15:00.000-07:00

As a result of my most recent post, I have received a number of responses from subbies and sissies who know me who have expressed great concern that the post about attention seeking was in reference to their behaviour. I have been astounded by this.

I believe that I am some who does not pull her punchs, rest assured dear reader, if I was bothered by someone behaviour, I would make comment to them directly. They would be in no doubt what so ever that their attention seeking behaviour was not acceptable to me

The attention seeking post expressed my thought about such behaviour in general. It is an insight into my own likes and in that case dislikes. I realize that not all Mistress feel as I do, nor should they. We are individuals, no two Mistresses are the same, no two Mistresses will view behaviour in exactly the same way. That is as it should be.

This is MY blog, these are MY opinions. Anyone has the right to disagree.

Attention Seeking

2009-09-11T16:37:00.000-07:00

There is a habit that some submissives display that I find particularly disappointing. That is Attention seeking behaviour. What is attention seeking behaviour. Think of the last time you were in a supermarket and saw a toddler whining and tugging at their mothers sleeve. THAT is attention seeking.

"Mistress I caaaaaaaaaaaaaaan't" is attention seeking.

'Mistress I adore you I worship you, you are the sun and the moon, you are my all you and my everything, ..........." is attention seeking.

Misbehaving is attention seeking.

Being a drain rather than of service is attention seeking.

I find it amazing that again and again a submissive will try this type of behaviour in an effort to gain attention. For me such behaviour deserves only one response. Being ignored. If it continues the submissive is not worthy of the attention they crave and should I believe be banished until they learn to behave.

Harsh, perhaps, but they WILL learn or be very miserable.

Often Amazed

2008-05-13T22:53:00.000-07:00

I am often amazed by the total lack of simple good manners and courtesy shown to me in e-mails by prospective clients, eager submissives and desperate slave. These are people who wish me to pay them some attention and yet this is a sample of an actual email I recently received;

“I need a very hard spanking in frost of every one please E mail me @ ………. “
(I have removed the address to avoid embarrassing the sender)

That was the total extent of the communication. No greeting, No name given. What can anyone sending such an email hope to gain?

Here is another example;

“I want to serve you. I want to lick your boots and be owned by you. I am willing to relocate. I want to be a total slave.”

Again, there is no greeting, no name, no respect shown, no graciousness no consideration shown. Again I ask the question, what can anyone sending such an email hope to gain.

In both cases they gain NOTHING. The delete button is my friend and I do not hesitate to use it.

A word to the wise. I don’t mind if your emails are not highly eloquent, I don’t mind if English is not your first language and so your grammar is not all it could be, but I do mind when people writing to me do not put a greeting on there emails, EG Dear Mistress Strict
I do mind when they fail to sign a name in closing.
I do mind when they fail to spell check their letters.
I do mind when they fail to use the subject line.

A further suggestion:-
When writing to a Domme seeking to be accepted into her service, do not make your correspondence all about YOU. Rather, write explaining why you would be of great service to the lady. List your skills explaining how they would benefit her. Make sure your focus is on the Mistress and NOT on yourself.

Be polite,
Be respectful and
Be considerate.

Making Mistress Laugh

2008-05-08T18:30:00.000-07:00

One of my sweet slaves, took it upon himself to make my day a little more pleasant by sharing some jokes with me. One in particular made me laugh out loud, so I thought I would share his good work with you all.

A married couple, in their early 60s, was celebrating their 32nd wedding anniversary at a quiet, romantic little restaurant.Suddenly, a tiny beautiful Fairy appeared on their table.She said: 'For being such an exemplary married couple and especially this time, I will grant you each a wish.''Oh, said the wife, I want to travel around the World with my darling husband' .The fairy waved her magic wand ; and - poof! - two tickets for the Queen Elizabeth II luxury liner and ten thousand dollars appeared in her hands.Then it was the husband's turn.He thought for a minute and said: 'Well, this is all very romantic, but an opportunity like this will never come again. So I'm going with my mind and not my heart'.I'm sorry my love, but my wish is to have a wife 30 years younger than me.The wife and the Fairy were shocked and disappointed. But a wish is a wish.So, the Fairy waved her magic wand, and - Poof! the husband became 92 years old.
The Moral of the story: Men who can be ungrateful bastards should remember: Fairies are Female.

He also sent his image, which I also liked ALOT!!!

Service to your Mistress can take many forms, there are of course the 'classics', the foot rub, the massage, the preparation of a special meal, but service can to many many different forms. Lightening the load with a laugh is a wonderful form of service.

Think about your Mistress, how can you lighten her load? What can you do, without being asked, without expecting a reward, what can you do to make her life more pleasant?

Why not go and do it?

Mistress Strict

Orgasm Denial

2008-04-27T20:17:00.000-07:00

It is not uncommon for subs and their Dommes to report that the submissive loses the compelling desire to serve and obey after they have been granted the privilege to reaching orgasm. One obvious solution to this problem is the complete denial of the right to orgasm; however, studies show that for good prostate health, a male should ejaculate at least once every two weeks. No Domme wants her boy to risk his health, so the solution is prostate milking or massage.

Massaging the prostate forces seminal fluid and sperm past the valves in the ejaculatory ducts, and empty the prostate (which discharges directly into the urethra). If there is no stimulation given to the penis for a brief time before the prostate massage begins, draining of the ejaculate into the urethra will not trigger orgasm. Once ejaculate appears, it will help to empty the urethra by running a finger firmly up the underside of the penis from the root to the head, pushing the ejaculate in front of it.

Once a sufficient amount of ejaculatory fluid has been drained, insufficient fluid pressure to trigger the ejaculatory reflex will remain, and no amount of penile stimulation will result in orgasm until the fluid glands are recharged. This may take several hours to several days.

How long to go between milkings will have to be gauged by experiment. A particularly effective way of increasing an orgasm deprived male's sense of sexual frustration and thus his desire to serve and please Mistress between prostate milkings is to you’re your boy masturbate himself once a day every day to just short of orgasm, then install him into a chastity device.

Enjoy these wicked thoughts.
Mistress Strict

Strict Weight loss

2008-04-15T23:23:00.000-07:00

Congratulations to my sissy girl Michelle

After months of work. After months of dedication and sweat Michelle has at last reached her goal weight and she looks FABULOUS. I am so proud of my Michelle for all the work she has done.

Changing her body shape was a goal she had asked me to assist her with as part of her distance sissy training. When she started with me she was only just able to squeeze into a size 20 skirt. Now she is looking so lady like and lovely in a new size 16 shape. She now has an excuse to buy a whole new wardrobe of clothes. What sissy wouldn't love that. I'd love to be able to post a pic of her with her new look, but unfortunately (as many of you will understand, she is a little 'shy')

Master Jay a wonderfully skilled Dom and personal trainer is a dear friend of mine and he designed a diet and exercise program for Michelle. Every week she would weigh and measure herself for us. Even though she is in North America and I am here in Australia, she was constantly monitored and her progress reviewed. The Internet offers so many amazing tools.

Thank you Master Jay for your dedication and skill. Michelle has reached her goal and I couldn't be more proud.

Well done my girl. Keep up the GREAT work.

Domination is everywhere

2008-04-14T16:55:00.000-07:00

Isn't it wonderful that Domination can be found just about anywhere these days. Just yesterday I was reading a ‘children’s book’ that had one of the best role model characters for young women I have come across in a long time. Let me share,

“She was vivid and passionate, with large black eyes, it was said that he had
been her lover. She wore heavy gold earrings and a crown on her black
curly hair ringed with the fangs of snow tigers. Serafin had learned that
she had killed the tigers herself in order to punish the Tartar tribe who
worshiped them, because the tribesmen had failed to do her honour when she had
visited their territory. Without their tiger gods, the tribe declined into
fear and melancholy and begged her to allow them to worship her instead, only to
be rejected with contempt. What good would their worship do her? It
had done nothing for the tigers. Such was she; beautiful, proud and
pitiless.”

Now there is a woman any little girl would aspire to be.

At long last, I'm BACK to Blogging

2008-04-10T17:45:00.000-07:00

Well, at last I am settled back at home and I can turn my attention once again to my much neglected blog. Sigh, Mistress has been out and about and away for so long, but fear not, I am back now with so much news to share.

Technology really has done amazing things for the art of Domination.

As you may or may not be aware, I have been on vacation. I have had a delightful time, but I have not been neglecting my wards. My subbie charges have been disciplines and praised trained and torments by me with the aid of technology.

There are so many wonderfully devious devices these days that can be used to keep a boy chaste. So many ways of checking up n a sissy to ensure she is doing as she has been told. The ability to dial into another’s computer, to take control of it and check their surfing history, all while being, on a beach on the other side of the world.

Technology certainly has given the Domme new freedom of expression. New ways of controlling her charges. New ways of monitoring behaviour. I adore taking control of the world of boys living as far afield in Wellington, New Zealand and Ontario in Canada. I love learning the differences in the kinky thoughts of boys and girls from across the planet. It is wonderful.

My stable of charges expands and contract all the time, I am happy to invite new sissies into service and very happy when I can pass on a fully trained one to a deserving Mistress. It really is so very rewarding.

I am a lucky and deserving Domme.

Let me know about your kink, Mistress always enjoys the devotion of a new boy or girl. I welcome applications from those with little or no experience and those who are highly skilled.

The saddest thing in all the world is a subbie alone. Train with me and become worthy to serve.

Catching up on News

2008-01-08T13:35:00.000-08:00

Well, little ones,

There has been so much that has happened since I have been "off the air" for the past few weeks with ISP trouble. So let me catch you up.

Firstly, and most excitingly (ooops, is that a word?) one of my girls, one of my distance training sissy girls (jennie from Hull in the UK) has been accepted by my dear friend Mistress Ava as her personal maid.

I am so excited for them both. jennie has been training with me for some time. She has been diligent and dedicated. Once she reached a level that I found acceptable, I was confident to make an introduction for her to my long standing friend Mistress Ava. When I use to live in England, Mistress Ava and I would terrorize the south East, LOL . Now she has 'settled down' in York and mentioned that she was in need of a personal maid. I made a tentative introduction, they met, and I am happy to report that things have worked out for them both better than I could have hoped. They are even talking about a live in position!!! I am so proud of jennie and happy for Mistress Ava. She deserves only the best and I am proud so say that with her dedication and efficient manner, jennie is becoming one of the best.

I am so very happy and proud. Over time I would love to find happy homes for all my girls in training. I have thought many times of starting a 'Match Makers service' for sissy girls. maybe one day, I'll find the time. happy sigh. A Dommes job is never done.

your,
Mistress Strict

2008-01-06T22:10:00.000-08:00

Greetings little ones.

Well, it has been an interesting holiday break for me. I hope you festive season has been a positive one, with lots of wicked toys being placed under your tree. Perhaps you have been bad and got a well deserved thrashing with holly leaves. (Oh my how prickly they are.)

Mistress has been off line for some time. My ISP has had a break down. It is STILL not working properly. I have had to resort to DIAL UP, oh can you belief it. How primitive!!!. One does not realize how many times each day one turns to the internet for assistance until you have been cut off from it.

I ask that you all be patient. I have a mountain of emails to go through. All who deserve one WILL get a reply, it just might take some time.

Donation to the ‘Get Mistress Strict a new computer and ISP’ will be graciously accepted. Email me direct for details on how to make your donations. :-)

Be well little ones,
Mistress will have more exciting news and views posted for you very soon.

For now, why not visir my site, www.strict.com.au and check out what's new there.

technical difficulty

2007-12-31T20:26:00.000-08:00

Greetings little ones,

Apologizes, but Mistress Strict is off the air temporarily as my ISP (Bigpond GRRRRRRRRR) is having some exchange problems in my area and I am waiting on a site visit from one of their geeks. oh well.

As soon as things are back on track, I will tell you all about my lovely Christmas new year holiday.

Be wicked

Mistress Strict

Bare bottom spanking

2007-12-05T18:00:00.000-08:00

Dear ones,

Is there anything more intimate, more erotic or more sensual than a good old fashioned bare bottomed spanking? Turing my boy over my knee, feeling his weight settle over my knees, feeling is breathe quicken, the warmth of his skin. My hand rubbing gently over his bare arse. The shiver of anticipation before my flat palm is brought down hard and fast across the exposed flesh.

I delight in seeing the rosey red colour rise, the first stroke producing pink finger marks, the more strokes the deeper the colour. The skin under my hand warms the more stroke I apply.

The moan of a boy as I rake my nails over his tender bottom. Oh the joy and delight a bare bottom spanking brings.

it isn't easy

2007-11-17T17:28:00.000-08:00

Dear ones,

I have a number of sissy girls doing distance training with me. I am proud of them all. They work hard, doing their very best to complete the lessons I give them. Thy learn to walk, talk, sit, curtsy, kneel, serve and most importantly obey! It is NOT easy being a sissy and distance training really tests a girls commitment and dedication. The lessons I set are individualized to each girls level of experience and personal circumstances, but still from time to time each one will find it hard if not impossible to complete a given task.

Having failed to complete a task the true test of a distance trainee is to accept the punishment given (if there is one,) and continue to move forward. It is all to easy to give up. A true sissy would never do that. Times of self doubt are natural, but giving up is not the way to move forward. Accepting that from time to time we all fail and using that failure as a learning tool is the ideal.

A sissy must be dedicated. I am proud of all my girls, because they trust in me, they give their all to their lessons and they are beauties, every one.

Torment

2007-11-06T15:35:00.000-08:00

Bound and helpless.
That is how I like to see a man. Unable to escape, ready to serve me. I light a candle and sit back, my heel resting in the back of his neck and I allow the candle wax to drip onto his back. His body tenses and the heat of the wax caresses his skin. Anticipation, waiting. When the next drop falls it catches him be surprise. He strains, trying it seems to hear the drop falling, hoping to prepare his body for its kiss.

Again and again. My pleasure toy. Taking my pain.

Bondage with a twist

2007-11-04T17:02:00.000-08:00

Just the other day, I had the most amusing bondage session with a relatively new client.

Over the years, he had visited many professional Dommes, he had visited many local dungeons and would often indulge his passion for bondage when he was interstate and overseas on business. He had the feel of a ‘been there done that’ kind of gentleman. He expected nothing out of the ordinary. He wanted a bondage session. He wanted to be held, exposed, taunted and teased. He wanted it to be ‘real’, secure, he wanted to be unable to escape no matter how he tried and struggled.

It was with much satisfaction that I listened to his enthusiastic feedback at the conclusion of our session. He gushed about how he had never experienced a session that had left him feeling so ‘alive’. He fervently expressed his desire to experience this type of session again.

WHY WAS THE SESSION Soooo DIFFERENT?

Most dungeons are located in easy to reach central city districts, in industrial areas or inner city suburbs. Session are held in atmospherically lit rooms, themed rooms with candles, rich looking fabrics, stone walls or medical rooms. For his session, I took him into my largest play space. The Australian bush. My studio is located on a secluded private retreat, with plenty of bushland and privacy.

He was bound and helpless, spread eagled between two unyielding gum trees. Mother nature was at her most wicked best, the harsh sun licked at his tender exposed skin, he was indeed vulnerable and exposed. Blindfolded he knew nothing of his location. He could feel the wind on his face, the sweat trickling down his chest, he was helpless, at the mercy of mother nature, her biting insect hoards and me. The more he struggled against the bonds, the more he sweated, the more the insects bothered him.

I enjoyed the session very mush because for me, there is nothing better that making a session, REAL.

House Slave

2007-10-28T17:44:00.001-07:00

Greetings little ones,

Well Mistress has been keeping VERY busy, clients, clients and more clients. What a delightful change to have a house slave all for my very own.

My house slave did my bidding, from morning until evening he was there just for my use. I clean and pamper ME. My feet were tended in the most delicious manner imaginable, peppermint foot balm, massaged and pampered. Oh my how delightful it is to have someone dedicated to MY pleasure.

Chores were done without fuss. Supervision was a joy not a chore for me. Watching my house slave clean and scrub on her knees, with the same level of dedication he showed to massaging my feet as to cleaning the floor. I was so proud and pleased with the house slaves focus.

EVERYTHING was about making my life easier. When I had another client, my house slave waited bound in the corn of my studio. Not struggling, not moaning, not seeking my attention. He showed that he honoured the process, respected the needs of my other client and most importantly respected ME.

Having a house slave to do my bidding is a truly wonderful treat. I do hope there are more dedicated slaves out there for me to use, tease and appreciate

A Story for you entertainment

2007-10-15T16:26:00.000-07:00

She watched his every move. “Don't you tire of controlling everything?” she asked him in a matter-of-fact manner. “Doesn't it exhaust you trying to keep things organized? Wouldn't you like to just let go of it for a while?" Her eyes pierced his own for the single moment he dared look into them.
"Give yourself to me," she half-demanded, half-requested. Holding his hand more tightly, she drew herself closer to him. He watched her breasts seem to poke up from her leather bra and felt her long nails dug into his palm. "Would you like to be my boy?" she asked and sat silently, demanding that he reply.
There was no sense to this, he realized, yet he felt his chin move up and down in affirmative response. For the first time since he could remember, no thoughts raced through his mind yet it wasn't empty. He felt her fingers dig in harder as she stood and guided him behind her.
She led him down a hallway and into a darkened room. Releasing his hand once they were inside, he heard a door latch soundly. The darkness unnerved him and stoked the fear he harbored of being unable to categorize his surroundings and make sense of what his world had just become. Her voice interrupted his fear.
"Stand absolutely still and be silent," she whispered loudly from her throat.
The sound of her stiletto heels against the tile floor pierced his ears. Each step brought her closer and his body's warmth seemed to increase proportionally to her nearness. His trembling legs threatened once or twice to cease supporting his weight as he felt and heard her approach. The buzzing in his ears rose and his hands hung without function from his arms.
"Relax," she cooed, "it's not what you think you want, but it's what you need."
Her fingers touched his chest and her voice changed tenor. "Unbutton your shirt," she commanded, "and drop it on the floor."
For a moment, he hesitated. But there was something in her voice that made him want to remove it and something inside his own head that seemed to force him to perform as she instructed. As the white shirt fell silently to the tile floor, he studied his body to determine if he was now cold. He should be, he figured, because the outdoor temperature was low enough that …
"Shoes!" she instructed. "Take off your shoes and socks and stand silently!"
"NOW!" she ordered and without warning sent a single stroke of an unseen cane across his left cheek.
The shock of being struck overwhelmed him. Unable to think any longer, he simply stood shirtless in a dark room. All his body realized, even without his mind's analysis that it didn't want to feel that cane again.
He scampered to remove his shoes and socks and threw them halfway across the room. Anything to comply - anything to avoid that evil cane! Perhaps he heard a small giggle or perhaps it was his ears again unable to hear clearly. It didn't matter. Only the cane mattered.
"Pants are next," she continued without abatement. "Remove them, throw them on the floor."
Without giving him an opportunity to comply, she struck his right cheek soundly. He scrambled to comply and ripped at his belt, button and zipper to yank his pants to his ankles. Struggling to pull them off in the utter darkness, he lost his balance and found himself plopped indecorously on the tile floor with his jeans tied hopelessly around his feet.
"On your knees," she ordered. When he managed to plant his hands on the floor and steady himself to his knees, she planted two even blows - one on each of his now-searing ass cheeks.
His throat emitted an indiscernible groan as he flopped onto the tile and tore his jeans from his ankles. Forcing himself upright as quickly as possible, he tossed his jeans without direction and tried to comfort his aching ass with his hands.
He felt her approach him almost at the same time he inhaled the aroma of her perfume. The fragrance that filled his nostrils and his brain excluded all thought processes. He couldn't think because her bouquet saturated him completely. When her fingers touched his naked chest, he literally gasped for air.
She chuckled and planted cold metal against his waist. Unable to hear or see or think, he stood silently and tried to force his body to understand her actions. The metal pressed lower and lower and within moments his underpants had been cut and removed. Scissors or knife, he wondered briefly, until he realized that he was absolutely naked, cut off from the comfort of his carefully developed reality and at the mercy of this woman whose last name he didn’t even know.
It was at the moment of that combination of understandings that he began to cry.
He didn't just whimper; instead, he felt great gushes of sobbing emerge from his eyes but begin down deep in his gut. The years of concentration, organization, order and total absorption in his work fell from his soul like a snake sheds his skin to begin anew.
His skin burned but the sobbing continued unabated until she closed in and licked his tears with her tender lips. As she drank in his fear and grief, he was comforted by her care and concern. He relished in it and allowed himself to cede that piece of him to her tongue.
It was then that she took his cock in her gloved hand and pulled it toward her, and along with it, him. Struggling to match her step, she led him around the darkened room in a macabre sort of dance. She strode faster and he semi-galloped to keep up with her. When she turned, his cock turned first and his body followed. The march forced him the length and width of the room and just for good measure, she strutted him around its perimeter until she finally yielded his organ.
An unseen rod greeted his ass once more and he pressed his hands to his cheeks as if to ward off any further blows.
"At attention!" she hissed into his ear. The overpowering memory of the rod drove his hands to his sides, his chest forward, his chin up and his legs straight.
Pinching both of his nipples with her fingertips, she pulled up and straightened him even further. His mind was on fire and his body seemed to belong to someone else. Nothing made sense, nothing fit into anything he could have imagined.
"It's late," she commented, "and I'm tired."
He felt a surge of energy invade his body and depart just as quickly.
"And I'm hungry," she finished.
He felt her fingertips release his nipples then rub them to drive a merciless searing pain throughout his chest. Her fingers and palms rubbed against his chest, back, waist, hips, groin and neck. She wiped his eyes, presumably with his underpants, and then dabbed carefully at his face to remove any trace of sweat.
"Get dressed," she ordered and dropped his pants, shirt, socks and shoes at his feet. "I'll see you at the table."
The clicking of her heels on the tile floor grew fainter and a bright flash of light told him that a door had been opened and then closed. With no one providing orders, he was at a loss as to what to do next, but soon, little by little, his mind emerged and reminded him that he was naked. Dressing quickly, he felt his way toward the door, opened it, trekked the hallway and rediscovered her sitting waiting for him.
For the first time, he understood exactly what he wanted and needed. He nodded and seeing him, she smiled broadly at the sense of calm he exuded.

What makes a good Mistress?

2007-10-09T01:05:00.000-07:00

I have been asked recently to work with several dominant women, they wanted to learn how to be a Mistress to their partners. The following are points that I think are important qualities for a Mistress.

Mistress’s vary in attitude, colour, shape, philosophical beliefs, style, motivations and passions, however most ladies I have meet who deserve the title Mistress all share the following characteristics.

Six Attributes Every Mistress Needs" include:

Self-confidence. "What a person thinks of herself contributes to the image others have of her.... Gaining self-confidence ... takes self-examination and a clear appraisal of oneself...."
Trustworthiness. "The frequency with which the word trust appears in the Ds community's conversation is no accident.... There isn't a single Ds activity that doesn't depend upon and benefit from mutual trust."
Consistency. "How the Mistress acts sets the example and teaches the slave how to be.... For a slave to submit there has to be a framework in which he can 'know the rules' and develop dependable expectations."
Responsibility. It's the slave's responsibility to serve. The Mistress is responsible for the relationship.
Acceptance. ".... until you accept yourself as who you are, there will be a struggle that will make true realization of your Self difficult, if not impossible."
Expertise. "Experience is the best teacher and good technique is crucial to success...."

taking him further

2007-09-29T18:18:00.000-07:00

Greetings little ones,

The other day, I had a beautiful bondage session with a quite experienced subbie boy. He was eager to test and stretch his limits and it was my pleasure to assist him in that quest.

The boy had experienced many forms of bondage, ropes and chains where familiar to him, he had not however, ever experienced mummification. Many find the form of bondage very challenging. Panic attacks can happen if the sub is not monitored with care.

Once mummified, the boy slipped down into sub space and found that amazing place of peace and calm. For a time he was able to 'float' in that space, but he then began to experience anxiety. He began to sweat and found his breathing had become shallow. Soft words and reassuring hands helped him beat the panic demons and find his inner calm.

He went far further than he thought he could. He was gently push past what he thought was his limit. At the end of the session, he lay curled by my feet relaxed and deeply peaceful. It is a beautiful thing to see. I was so proud of him. He trusted enough to go beyond!
THAT is true submission.

Mistress NOT mind reader

2007-09-17T16:11:00.000-07:00

Greetings little ones

Are you able to articulate what it is that you desire? Do you know what it is that turns you on? What is it that excites you? What is YOUR fetish?

One of the wonderful things about this world of ours little ones, is that EVERYONE is different. We all have different likes and dislikes. What turns YOU on might be a massive turn OFF for someone else. When you visit a Mistress or when you are exploring with a new partner, it is VITAL that you feel comfortable enough to really be honest about what it is that you enjoy, AND equally important it is important to say what is a turn OFF.

A Mistress may have insights, a Mistress can tell much from a clients behaviour, BUT I know of none who are mind readers. Speak up and be honest with your Mistress. This is YOUR responsibility, if she doesn't know she can't act. Help her to know you better. She will gain more from a session if you do as she will know how best to push and punish you. You will gain more. and, you will both be happier.

An honour

2007-09-10T01:06:00.000-07:00

Recently I had the great honour of giving an instructional session to a Dominant lady who was totally new to the lifestyle and her boy. It was a genuine privilege and pleasure to work with this couple. The respect that they showed each other as they entered into what was a unusual experience for tribute to them both. He was an experienced submissive and pain slut, she was new to the lifestyle, although clearly NOT new to being a powerful and in control young lady.

To say that she took to it like “a duck to water”, would be an under statement. There were many aspects to this encounter that pleased me enormously.

Firstly, here was a young lady who was new to the lifestyle, but who was willing (if not eager) to embrace all that it can offer her. She showed great courage in her willingness to say, those VERY scary words, “I don’t know, please teach me.” That showed wonderful maturity and self awareness. NOT everyone who wants to enter this lifestyle is so wise.

The damage that can be caused by lack of knowledge is immense. Realizing that, this lovely lady sort out a teacher, placed herself in a position of vulnerability and asked for help. I admire and respect her greatly for doing so.

As we slowly worked though some basic aspects of bondage and discipline, she and her partner asked intelligent questions. She tried things out. Tested her limits and frankly, she blossomed!!

It was such a delight to see the GRIN that she wore as she left my studio to take her boy home to practice on.

More about this wonderful session later

Be good little ones

Mistress Strict

the need for advice!!

2007-09-03T17:51:00.000-07:00

Goodness me!!!

I had not realized how many of you out there were longing to ask Mistress a question. How many of you needed the advice of an experienced and approachable Domme.

I can’t possibly reply on line to ALL the emails you have sent, but I will try to pick some common themes and address them in future posts.

Please don’t hesitate to contact me, I am happy to assist where I can, BUT, little ones, IF you are rude, if your question lacks appropriate thought and/or if you fail to have the common courtesy to address me by name and sign your email then DON’T expect a reply. YOUR email will join the many others in the trash folder.

Mistress Stirct

Agony

2007-09-01T00:26:00.001-07:00

I got this email from a sissy I know the other day. I thought that it might be valuable for others to read her letter and my reply.

Dear Mistress Strict,

My Mistress has told me she will be playing
with another subbie/maid. I feel intense jealousy that her
attention will be directed to someone else. How do I overcome my envy and be
happy for her?

Signed
A greedy slut.

I replied:

Dear one,
Wagging my finger at you!
Attitude attitude attitude!! You are committing one of the cardinal sins of submission, you are focused not on what your Domme wants, but on what you want. Wicked child!!

Think for a moment what it would be like not you have your Goddess in your life at all. That she chooses to play with others is her right. Jealousy is a very unattractive quality and is one of the fastest ways that I know of to poison a relationship.

Focus on your Mistresses needs and not your own and feelings of jealousy disappear. . This is a glass half full and not half empty situation. Your mistress chooses to be with you. Celebrate that fact.

Mistress Strict

BOOT BLISS

2007-08-25T00:23:00.000-07:00

Greetings little ones.

What a day of ups and downs it has been.

This morning I awoke with a thrill of anticipation. I had a client booked to see me mid morning who was a ‘virgin’ to the Bdsm world. That’s right little ones. He SAID he had never visited a Mistress before. I confess little ones that for me it is a thrill to introduce a boy to the world to Bdsm. I feel that it is both a great honour and a significant responsibility taking the hand of a new boy and leading him gently from the world of his fantasies into the reality of a first time Bdsm experience.

I know that some Mistress’s feel that teaching a newbie is a chore. For me it is a blessing. I enjoy it and work hard to ensure that his first taste of the Ds world leaving him wanting more.

With all these thoughts is mind I was delighted when this new boy rang early to re-confirm his appointment. I prepared myself and then I waited. And waited ………….. and waited.

That is right little ones the wicked disrespectful boy failed to attend me. He failed to ring to cancel. He failed, letting us BOTH down. This is a hazard of being a professional Dominatrix. It happens, I am happy to say rarely, but it does happen.

Anyway, it left me with time that I had not expected to have free and I was annoyed. I stalked about in my thigh boots longing to hurt someone. Then, happy Happy JOY JOY!!

A beautiful boy was free to attend me and I had the delightful pleasure of having a boot slave lavish all the attention on my black thigh boots that they so richly deserved.

With my heel pressed deep into his thigh, he buffed and polished.

As I ground my foot hard against his chest, his eyes looked on mine, he continued to clean and shine my boot until they shone so clearly that I was able to see his reflection looking lovely and adoring into them.

What a pleasure is was to lie back and have him tend to my needs. Is there anything more lovely than having a devoted boy attend me in my ‘hour of need’?

One never knows what is going to happen next little ones.

Never give in, never give up.

Mistress Strict

What makes Mistress most proud?

2007-08-15T23:16:00.000-07:00

The path of a submissive is by no means an easy one.

To many, it seems such an easy and a straightforward proposition; to give yourself over to the desires of a Mistress. What could be simpler?

Do not however be fooled little ones.

It is not an easy thing to do, nor is doing so the right decision for everyone. To be a devoted submissive requires great courage and inner strength. It is easy to ‘talk’ about giving yourself of a Mistress, but doing so is another thing entirely.

As a submissive, you will be expected to do things that you have never done before.
You will be required to perform tasks, not because you desire to do them, but because your Mistress requires them of you, and your desire to please her is the driving force in your world.

You will try to please, Try to meet, even try to surpass her expectations. When you do so, the joy you feel will be a greater reward than gold, but be warned little one. Every coin has its flip side, and disappointing your Mistress will be the greatest torture you will ever experience.

THAT is when your inner strength will be required.

When you have failed, it will be your courage that ensures you do not simply give up. Surrendering to the despair you feel having let down your Mistress is so temping little ones. You will want to run and hide from her gaze, you will want to escape the shame you feel. You will torture yourself over and over thinking about how you could have done things differently. You will play the ‘if only” game again and again. At those times little ones, you have a choice, sink into dispare, blame others for it all being ‘too hard’ OR call upon your inner strength and courage to rise above your failure and continue your service with rejuvenated vigor.

That is when the submissive shines. That is when your Mistress will be most proud of you. EVERYONE fails, but the true measure of your devotion to your Mistress is how you respond to the failure. Do you choose to wallow in self recrimination and blame OR do you learn from your error and move forward, offering your Mistress your devotion with renewed ardor and passion?

Being a submissive is NOT an easy thing little ones, but the joy your devotion brings is unsurpassed

Think well on the path you choose little ones.

Mistress Strict

Proper Correspondence Etiquette

2007-08-13T18:28:00.000-07:00

Greetings Little ones,

I want to speak today about the correct procedure of properly addressing Mistress when emailing her. It is imperative that you show an understanding of your proper place if you hope to gain a Mistress's attention.

Humility, sarcasm, narcissism, arrogance, and all other forms of disrespectful communications will not be tolerated.

Most Dommes enjoy filtering their mail. If you are rude, if your correspondence lacks the appropriate tone, if you fail to follow appropriate rules of etiquette and respect, a Mistress will not hesitate in consigning you mail to the trash. Such correspondence does not deserve a reply

Yelling.
I consider communications written in capital letters (SUCH AS THIS) to be "yelling", and I will automatically delete such mail

Me Me Me Me
Messages that contain more "I's" than any other word are just in poor taste for a sissy. I call this the "me me me" letter. Humility is a very important part of your training, you must remember that not everything is about you..

Composition, Grammar & Who's Who
Address those messages!
Spell check those messages!
Sign your messages!
Tell me who you are!

Little ones, if you want to correspond with a Mistress, show her that you are a whole person, that you have thoughts and ideas and are not just a needy little no-one who will only seek to drain her dry. Giving of self is an important part of any correspondence. Let your communications be positive and up lifting, not demanding and needy.

Before sending an email, ask yourself this question.
'How will this communication benefit Mistress?"

Be honest.

If the answer is, 'It will not", then why are you sending it?

Just a thought.

Mistress Strict

Shoe Art

2007-08-08T00:53:00.000-07:00

Greetings little ones

Mistress has been having a lovely time lately taking my favourite shoes out on excursions. WHAT? I hear you say Let me explain. I love shoes. This I hope is already clear to my readers. Shoes with heels, boots, stilettos, metal spiked heels are a particular favourite of mine. ANYWAY, I decided that I would like to share my passion for shoes, not just with my fellow kinksters, but with the wider community. Sooooooooooooo, I came up with shoe art.

To begin with I have created a series of photo 'essay'.

These are shoes I adore. Check out the heels. Aren't they lovely!!!!!
The best thing of all? These shoes are see thru. That is right, you can see my toes inside the shoes.

Let me know what you think.

Mistress Strict

No pain, means just as much fun

2007-08-06T18:44:00.000-07:00

Greetings little ones.

Recently I was approached by a delightful boy who had a foot fetish. The smell, the look, the feel of a dominant woman’s feet excited him. He had viewed my You Tube offerings and had read my site and then sent me a plaintive plea. He wanted a session with me. He wanted it badly, but he had no desire to experience any pain. He was not into canings, or spankings, all he wanted was to worship at my feet. 'Would that be alright?" he ask.

The trepidation which he showed in broaching this with me would have been amusing if he had not been so genuinely concerned that I might reject him.

Let me set the record straight for ALL who might read this.

A visit to my studio does NOT have to include ANY form of pain, hurt, smarting, torture, agony, suffering, smacking, caning, misery, humiliation or distress. The wonderful thing about having an inventive mind is that you are NEVER limited to stereotypes or formulas.

No two clients are alike and like clients, sessions are individual to. No two sessions are ever going to be the same.

I listen to my clients, learn what it is that they desire and then work to extending their experience.

Of course, if pain is what you desire ......... that too can be accommodated.

be well little ones.

Mistress Strict

A kinky mind

2007-08-03T17:45:00.000-07:00

Greetings little ones,

Last night Mistress went to the theatre to see a most magnificent production of King Lear. The Royal Shakespeare company, with Ian McKellan. The performance was breathtaking. I loved every minute. The staging, the sound, the lighting, the costumes. Oh my the costumes!!!! The ladies of court corseted in beautiful silks. But, little ones. Can you imagine what it was in this production that set my imagination aflutter?

A set of stocks, used to restrain 'Kent'. The props department did a wonderful job with a simple and elegant design. TOTALLY functional and simple. I would so glad that during the course of the scene the stocks where turned so that I was able to get a good look at there design, commit it to memory and then sketch them out when I returned home.

Yes little ones. Mistress will soon have a new toy. A beautiful set of stocks.

The moral of this little tale?

Kink is EVERYWHERE, you just need a kinky mind to see it.

Be kinky little ones.

Mistress Strict

TRUST

2007-07-29T18:59:00.000-07:00

Greetings Little Ones

One of THE most important qualities in a Ds relationship is TRUST. As a professional Dominatrix, my clients MUST be able to feel 100% confident in the confidential nature of our relationship. The location of my studio is designed to ensure that my clients can come and go without being observed, my email communication with my distance clients is secure (well as secure as it is possible to make email).

TRUST is a vital ingredient in my work, BUT it is also a vital ingredient in ANY Ds relationship. It is important to remember when seeking a Ds partner Whether it be for casual play, a professional encounter or a lifestyle partnership that you feel you can truly trust the person you will be with.

It is vital not only for your reputation but also for you own personal safety. The desire to submit is strong, but one must ALWAYS remember the need for personal responsibility and security. There have been a few NASTY cases of abuse recently reported and I just felt the need to remind you all. SAFETY is a personal responsibility.

Take care of yourselves little ones.

Mistress Strict

Distance Training

2007-07-23T20:05:00.000-07:00

Greetings little ones
As you are now aware, I offer distance domination via email (and private Messenger) to slaves and submissives who wish to devote themselves to me from afar when not physically able to attend my studio. I love technology and its use makes domination at a distance so much more exciting, so much more complete. I love my boys sending me video homework via youtube. I love the ability to monitor them and hold them close. The internet is a great tool and I embrace it.

FYI, my rate are:
OPTION 1: $60 per month (for weekly correspondence).
With this option you will be kept in line with weekly interaction via email with additional tasks to keep you appropriately aware of your place in my world.

OPTION 2: $145 per month (for daily correspondence).
For those who require more regular contact, this option will ensure you have the privilege of communicating with your Mistress in more depth on a daily basis to maintain your full devotion. This is a highly individualized service and might include but not be limited to Blogging for Mistress, Video Diary session and much much more.

If you are interested and want to know more, contact me at mistress@strict.com.au
or visit my website www.strict.com.au

Bye for now

Mistress Strict

Have you visited yet?

2007-07-17T19:51:00.000-07:00

Greetings little ones.

Have you visited my website yet? It is still very much a work in progress, but it is coming along and there is alot to read and discover there already. Over the coming weeks, I will be including a gallery page, a page about my studio, lots of articles and thought provoking literature. This is my first website so feedback would be great. Please let me know what you think, what you would like to see that is not there etc.

It is keeping me VERY busy and I am enjoying it. So remember, visit, review and email me your thoughts.

Bye for now little ones

Mistress Strict

My newest YOU TUBE

2007-07-12T15:29:00.000-07:00

Hello little ones.

For some reason, my video editor has decided that editing video is no longer its job. Grrrrr Talk about a love hate relationship with technology. Soooooooo my latest video has had to be a stills collage. Here it is. What do you think?

Mistress Strict

Technology!!!! Oh how I have a love/hate relationship with it.

2007-07-12T00:55:00.000-07:00

My dear little ones.

Technology has allowed me to enter the lives of submissives in such far flung countries as Germany, Denmark and the US all the time staying comfy and warm in my home here in Australia.

There are those that question the value of distance training. It is said that the connection between Dominant and submissive is not a ‘real’ one. It is said that real time is the only way to truly experience service, in fact, I know some people look down on distance training as something less than worthwhile.

Well little ones, I could not disagree more strongly and I know that those dear ones who serve me agree.
For many, this style of service is ideal. The great beauty of the true submissive spirit is that incredible ability to commit. When the right person makes such a commitment, distance is irrelevant.

I enjoy distance training
Unlike some, I don’t approach any less seriously than the “real” thing. I find the challenge of ‘finding the right buttons to push’ for each particular subbie fascinating. Just as no two session are ever the same, no two training schedules can be the same. Every slave/subbie has different needs, different fears, and different vulnerabilities.

I have included examples from two different blogs that are kept by subbies of mine to illustrate this point.

The first is from when I first accepted into service one who desired to serve as my toy. He wrote :

Dear Lady,

My orgasm is yours. This Diary is for you.

A few hours have passed since I got your emails accepting me into your sevice, since you told me so beautifully that you would take me to be yours, that you want to hold my orgasm. The thrill of waiting for your next email and for my training to begin runs all through me.

You tell me that you want me to masturbate for you daily, up to the point of cumming, but that I am not to cum, that I must hold it for you because it is yours and I am yours.

You want me to to enjoy my body as much as I want, that I can play as much as I want but that I am not to cum under any circumstances. That your punishment for my disobedience will be terrible.

I understand fully and will obey, I am thrilled and honoured, I want this so very much.I am Yours.

The next excerpt is from a foot fetishist who desired to worship me.

Mistress

Your ‘surprise’ arrived in the mail this afternoon. I went to the Post Office to check my box at lunch time and it was there. I didn’t dare open it until I had gotten home from work. All afternoon it sat on the corner of my desk. Taunting me. Teasing me. How I longed to rip it open and see what it contained.

But please know Mistress, I did not do so. I waited as you made me promise I would until I was at home.

As per your instructions, I showered with great care. I shaved my legs and moisturized as you had instructed me to do.

I prepared my bedroom. I made sure it was warm and cozy. I lit a candle and place your photograph on the bed beside me.

Mistress Looking into your eyes, I felt you so very close to me. Slowly, I opened the parcel. I tried had to be patient, slowly opening it so make the suspense last. Finally there was your beautiful note,

NEW INSTRUCTIONS FOR YOUR SERVICE MISTRESS. Thank you thank you thank you.

And your gift. When I opened the zip lock bag, your scent rushed out and enveloped me. Oh Mistress it was so lovely. So powerful and so intoxicating. I wound your socking around myself and followed your instructions to the letter.

Thank you Mistress!

As you can see, different subbies, different needs and both truly committed to service.

More on this subject another day.

Mistress Strict

Being a Key Holder

2007-07-01T23:52:00.000-07:00

Greetings little ones

I have had a number of you question what it is to have me as your key holders. Today I will tell you about what it is if you visit me in my studio. Later I will explain how it works for those unable to visit me in person.

I love to control the sexual urges of my wayward slaves. I offer a chastity key holding service for those of you who liked to be controlled by a powerful lady.

Before I commence this service you must have a session with me so that I can assess your suitability and committment.

You will then agree to purchase a "The Curve", CB-6000, CB-3000 with a plastic padlock with a serial number (these are more comfortable and the padlocks can be cut in case of emergencies). I will keep a record of the serial number to ensure that you are not cheating and removing the device between sessions. You will return to my studio so I can fit the chastity device for a specific period. You will then hand over the keys for me to keep.

In the beginning I would suggest that you return after about 5 -7 days so that I can check the device or adjust it as necessary, and to see you are not having problems with it. You must contact me immediately if there are any problems.

Depending on the level of trust and obiedence that you achieve with me I may remove the device and command you to improve your hygiene standards. I may then decide to amuse myself and torment you even further, replacing your chastity device for another (longer) period of time.

Occasionally I may have you checked by one of my friends.

This activity is subject to a signed agreement by all parties involved, including your spouse, and matters can be discussed in more detail during the preliminary session.

Being a key holder is a precious and honoured gift. I respect those who make such a committment and will assist them to achieve the chastity they deserve.

Mistress Strict

Being an Ideal Slave

2007-06-25T18:26:00.000-07:00

Greetings Little ones

I thoughts it might be of value to let you know how an an ideal slave should behave.

Being a Dominant Female, there are manners, morals and etiquette that I feel a good slave/submissive should possess.

This is not a be all and end all list but merely attributes that would, for me make up part of what an ideal slave should be.

This list can be used in reference to permanent D/s relationships, Professional Dominant/client or those in public in the fetish or BDSM scene.

An ideal slave;

* is polite at all times
* is punctual
* never wastes a Dominants time
* Takes care of personal hygiene
* Never puts sexual wants before a Dominant's needs or requirements
* Follows orders to the best of ability
* Has own personality (not a complete doormat!)
* Receives punishments with good grace
* Questions but never answers back in a rude or impertinent manner
* Does not moan or complain to a Dominant about trivial matters
* Is attentive to a Dominants needs at all times
* Does not embarrass a Dominant in public
* Uses safe word when necessary and does not abuse it
* Considers simple servitude without command
* Never stalks, pesters or unnecessarily bothers aDominant (or anyone for that matter!)
* Respects a Dominants privacy
* Is skilled in a non-BDSM activity that may benefit a Dominant
* Is keen to make a Dominants life better any way they can
* Never disobeys a direct order from a Dominant
* Does not masturbate during periods of enforced chastity
* Never does a domestic chore half heartedly
* Is loyal to a Dominant - time permitting
* Will put a Dominants needs before their own
* Is always clean and presentable in the presence of a Dominant
* Knows their place!

Study this list little ones it might benefit you in the fututre

Mistress Strict

I'm in LUV

2007-06-24T01:29:00.000-07:00

Greetings Little ones
to all you little shoe fetishists ut there, here is a treat http://www.highheelshoemuseum.com/
what more need I say. I love ALL the shoes here.

BUY me something pretty. I deserve it

Mistress Strict

Being Brave

2007-06-23T17:34:00.000-07:00

Greetings Little Ones

I recently received an enquiry from an elderly gentleman who had fantasized for his entire life about being spanked by a strong sensual woman.

He wrote to me in great detail about the scenario he wished to enact. How he imagined the lighting, the smells, the feel, what the woman would wear. He didn’t dream of thigh boots and corsets, just a simple dress, demur make up, the scene he created in his mind was all very (dare I say it) normal. BUT, it was his deep dark fantasy. Something that for years and years he had held close too afraid to express his desire, frightened that he would be judged.

I found his email both incredibly sad but also amazingly brave.

Little ones, I think that those who find the courage to express their yearning are incredible brave and it makes me so feel both proud and flattered to be honoured with such trust.

Spanking, cross dressing, sadomasochistic fantasy images of every kind, feet fetishists, sissy maid, you name it, I have heard it, and it is ALL WAY WAY WAY more common than most people realize. Statistic surveys have been completed that quote figures ranging between 10 and 22% of all men have had some level of desire to enact some form of sadomasochistic scenario and that between 7 -11% of men aged between 19 and 51 have acted on those desires. Next time you are in a crowd of men, look around you, at least one in every ten men is a closet kinkster of some kind.

Reassuring isn't it.

Be well and be wicked

Strict

Accidents happen

2007-06-21T17:51:00.000-07:00

Greetings Little Ones

Today my Danish boy rang to confess that even though he has been locked for only two weeks, he 'accidently' came, when he was cleaning himself last night.

I am both VERY proud of him and VERY disappointed him him. He needs to be punished, BUT he also must be praised. He could have been a wicked little subbie boy. He could have deleted the video of the accident. (to keep a check on my boys when they remove their cages for cleaning, they must make a video of the cleaning session for me and post it on YouTube for me to view). He could have lied and not confessed, but he did not, I immediately told me to the terrible transgression. That makes me very proud of him. The fact that he has so little self control is shameful and deserves humiliation. That will come, but the lesson is clear.

He was a good boy, a true and noble slave and I am proud of him.

Be well, be good little ones
Strict

Isn't it pretty!!!

2007-06-20T23:02:00.000-07:00

Greetings Little ones,

The NEW CB chastity device, the CB 6000, isn't it pretty!!!!! Oh my, I can't wait to try it out on a willing (or even reluctant victim)

The design has been improved since the cb3000, which I have found CAN be escaped from!!. It is going to be fun to see if the design improvements reduce the ability of naughty subbies to wiggle their way out!.

Any Volunteers?

Strict

Studio Progress

2007-06-19T22:32:00.000-07:00

Greetings Little Ones

Well my new studio is coming along wonderfully well. I have had my sissy room painted the most girlie shade of pink imaginable. It is going to look so pretty when complete. All pink and white and soft and so feminine. Just the right atmosphere to transform my boys into beautiful girlie girls. I'm as busy as ever right now little ones.

I have been doing ALOT of on-lining Domination of late and am having a lovely time. Making my boys make me videos to prove they have completed the tasks I have set them.

I truly do have a wicked and creative mind. I love thinking up evil things to have my boys do to prove their devotion. There is a wonderful site called Tickleberry http://www.tickleberry.co.uk/pages/index.html do you know it little ones? If not then you should all get to know it. It has the move lovely collection of devices. I love locking my overseas boys away. Tee Hee I love to hear the moans of a boy denied the right to orgasm.

Wicked thoughts little ones.

Strict

Shopping

2007-06-18T17:49:00.000-07:00

Greetings Little Ones,

I do love to shop little ones. I of course adore shopping for shoes. Can there be anything more pleasant than to take a boy shopping for shoes and have him act as your personal servant in the stores. To have a boy knee at you feet in public and tenderly ease my shoes from my feet before cupping my foot gently and assisting me to try on a new pair of fabulous heels.

I love the envious looks the other shoppers give me. I love the adoring way in which each new pair of shoes are presented for my inspection. Seeing the confused look on the shop assistance faces as my boy takes over their roles and does it BETTER than they ever could.

And when my decision is made, the shoes purchased, it is just a delight to hand the bags to boy and allow him to follow behind carrying the bags, simply waiting for my next detour.

Happy thoughts

Strict

You Tube Fun

2007-06-17T19:52:00.000-07:00

Greetings little ones

I have been having a delightful time creating what I hope you will find to be a wickedly exciting video for you all to drool over. (Isn't Mistress good to her boys?)

Here's a tease.

Yes indeed, Mistress grinding a plump, ripe juicy tomato under her sexy see-thru stilettos. Pressing the flesh down under my heel, feeling the flesh finally give way under the pressure and exploding. Then slowing smearing and rubbing the flesh under my feet.

You will find a lovely tease of the soon to be completed video on YouTube already.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wdc4w3znhDc

Mistress is working on cutting the video together so that you will not miss a moment of the delicious scene.

I hope you little ones appreciate the effort Mistress is going to. Be aware though. I am not doing this for you little ones. I like to think of you squirming at home as you want Mistress. I want you thinking of the wicked things that she could do to you. I want you to think about how YOU cold thank Mistress for her generosity.

Don't forget to thank Mistress, you can visit my shop on Ebay and buy yourself a treat. Maybe you would like to feel, taste and smell a pair of stocking worm by Mistress especially for you. I have stockings for sale on Ebay, and if you ask me nicely, I might wear them for you before I send them to you.

Such a wondefully wicked thought isn't it little one?

Be wicked little one.

Strict

Massage OIL

2007-06-12T17:35:00.000-07:00

Greetings Little Ones

Oh my have I been having fun today. A busy day in the 'kitchen' for me. Cooking up my famous HOT HOT HOT massage oil. When boys are naughty, or when I just feel like seeing a boy squirm, there is nothing like making them 'massage' while using my home made, wickedly hot oil. A wondeful blend of secret ingredients perfected over years of torturing boys.

The oil is sooooo silky and smooth when it is first applied, then of course boy starts to feel just a slight tingle, the tingle grows and grows until boy is soon writhing on the floor begging and moaning for me to make it stop. I don’t of course.

The more he strokes himself the more it burns. If he stops, I have ways of hurting him more. He knows he can’t stop and he knows he is forbidden to gain release. The moans are music to my ears.

Keep well, keep wicked little ones

Strict

Key Holder

2007-06-11T22:03:00.000-07:00

Greetings Little One's

A wicked Dommes work is never done, I am happy to say. So many needy boys to look after. I love my boys, they are each so very dear to me. (Provided they behave as they should). Perhaps I should begin by sharing with you my GOLDEN RULE for internet communication.

I am ALWAYS to be addressed with the utmost respect. I
shall be called Mistress, Ma'am or Mistress Strict. Remember that when
posting comments or sending your tributes.

Never forget that little ones. Anything less will be ignored.

Today I took possession of my beautiful German boys key. I am now his keyholder for the next month. Locked away safe and sound with his key on the other side of the world should keep him out of trouble. I am very proud of the boy for making this decision and am honoured that he has entrusted me with his chastity. The key to his CB3000 now sits on my honour board in my studio.

Such a proud and happy Domme right now

Strict

Stocking treat for a boy

2007-06-10T13:22:00.000-07:00

Greetings Little Ones

Well Mistress took a boy out with her last night.

We attended the 1st birthday of Chains fetish club. Lovely to catched up with fellow deviants. The smell of leather filled the rooms. Boy behaved well and was rewarded with the honour of licking my Red Thigh boots clean. Such a dedicated little one he was.

When we got home, he was further rewarded. He was given my used stocking to take home. Wasn't that kind of me little one's?

Such a delight for him. I AM good to boys who please.

Strict

2007-06-07T19:19:00.000-07:00

Greetings Little ones,

Mistress is having fun taking loads and loads of photos for her new competition.

All my lovely shoes being photographed looking their best. I have been keeping several boys very busy cleaning my shoes and making sure all is in order.

Here is a sneak peek of one of the shoots.

Don't you just wish I would bring my foot down on you?

Happy thoughts little ones

Mistress Strict

Foot worship competition

2007-06-06T19:14:00.000-07:00

Greetings once more little ones,

Mistress has had a sensational idea.

I am VERY excited.

In the next few days, I am going to photograph many of my favorite shoes.(With me in them of course). I will make them up into a video, and have all the little foot fetish fiends vote on which pair they like the best. They will have to explain why. The BEST entry wins.

Now what would be a good prize?

Perhaps a personalized video tour of my 'studio' wearing the shoes of the winners choice? Hmmmmm wouldn't that make for a very lucky winner.

Stay tuned little ones.

Be well, be wicked.

Mistress Strict

Trip to the snow

2007-06-05T14:15:00.000-07:00

Greetings Little Ones

Yesterday I took the day off from supervising my new studio renovations and went up to the snow. Yes Little ones, Mistress Strict lives in Melbourne Australia, where June is WINTER and we have Christmas in summer. (It is a crazy mixed up world isn’t it.)

ANYWAY, I took a boy and a puppy with me and made them run about in the snow. It was a glorious day. They frolicked and played for my amusement, but after a time they began to suffer from VERY cold ………………………………………………………toes (WEG and other bits). I let them take a break and get dressed and wait in the car for me while I enjoyed hot chocolate in a delightful bar called the Cattleman.

On the drive home I saw the most beautiful rainbow and stopped to photograph it for you all to share.

Wasn’t that kind of me?

Don’t I look after you all so beautifully?

Be well little one.

Mistress Strict

A day of rest

2007-06-04T21:29:00.000-07:00

Greetings little one's

Mistress had a day of restful bliss today. Hours and hours spent with a boy tending to my feet. Lovely body shop peppermint foot balm massage. Skilled fingers massaging Mistress's feet. hmmmmmm bliss for me and a treat for boy.

It is getting cool here as it is winter and boy prepared a lovely fire, I lay back on my chaise lounge, which I have a new (fake) fur throw for. I was delicious and warm to snuggle into the fur and have my feet tenderly cared for while I watched the fire.

LOVELY

Busy Busy Busy

2007-06-03T19:01:00.000-07:00

Greetings Little One's

My my, Mistress is being kept busy. Some many needy ones, so many other exciting things to do. boys just have to learn to wait!!

I have been having so much fun creating videos for YouTube. This is a whole new world to me and I am finding it wonderful. So many little ones to admire my shoes!! My wicked mind is awash with ideas of naugh ty videos. If you are interested in viewing some of my creations, visit http://www.youtube.com/profile?user=peaceluver64
I'd love to hear your thoughts.

Be wicked little ones

Strict

A new Studio

2007-06-02T16:52:00.000-07:00

Well greetings little ones.
Mistress has decided that this journal will be abut the creation of my new studio. Yes little ones. Mistress is renovating a small cottage she has 'aquired', and is creating a new professional studio. This journal will take us through the journey of creating my new play space.Excited? I am!!So about the studio. It is hidden away in a country setting. Only 45 minutes from the centre of town, but set on 18 acres. Far enough away from anyone so thst your screams will not be hear. I plan to create a Sissy room, a torture room, designed like a gym, a foot worship room a wet play area and a relaxation space. What do you think?

I'm of course NOT going to do the work myself. I have boys that will do that for me. Today I am off to choose paint. A boy will be allowed to buy it for me once I have decided on the colour. He will of course be commanded to be naked when he begins the task if painting. Hmmmmmmmmmmm naked boys up ladders. I think it would be only right that he must wear a butt plug while he works. IT will keep him focused.

If you are lucky little ones, I will post photos as the work progresses. Your thought, even your ideas may be welcome. Wicked ideas on what equipment I should include etc.

More later little ones.

Strict

beginning NOW

2007-06-01T18:37:00.000-07:00

GREETINGS LITTLE ONES

Today is the first day of an exciting new adventure for you all. Mistress Strict is opening her life to you, to view, to drool over and the allow you to pay homage if you are found to be worthy. (Or of course if you pay me enough). The internet is new to me and I find it fascinating to learn all about you little deviants out there. Mistress Strict wants to know all your dirty little secret thought and fantasies. Oh I want to know it all.